Dating Advice for Men: 5 Dating Etiquette Tips

Men’s Dating Etiquette for that Important First Date

Women love to receive honest compliments. So get your first date started out on the right foot by complimenting her appearance or even her lovely fragrance, or both. If her shoes look new, or unique, ask her about them, “What stylish shoes, are you a shoe lover?” To really impress her you could even study women’s shoes ahead of time, so that you know the various types: high heels, pumps, slingbacks, mules, etc. Imagine how great she will feel when you say something like: “Wow, what a stylish pair of slingbacks, are they really comfortable? They match your dress perfectly.”

And while we are on the subject of preparing for your first date, here’s a first date “to do list” to get you started in the area of men's dating etiquette:

Women always notice men's dating etiquette. 1. Polish up your image with good hygiene! Listen up men, women notice everything, it is how God designed women. Shave, shower, trim your nose hairs and fingernails, put on clean newer-looking clothing with no rips or tears or smudges. Comb your nice clean hair. Women notice shoes and many women like shoes a great deal, just look in the average woman's closet. So put on some clean newer-looking shoes. Make sure your shirt is in style and matches your pants or jeans. And don't go out smelling like the perfume counter at your local department store. Wear deodorant, yes, and maybe just a splash of aftershave or cologne. Remember some people have allergies. You don't want your date’s eyes tearing up or have her sneezing all evening long from the way you smell. Being considerate and kind is the key to practicing good dating etiquette.

2. If she is smart, she will be meeting you for the first date in a public place using her own transportation. Don’t pressure her to let you pick her up. Agree to meet her in a place where she feels comfortable. Show up on time and make contact ASAP if you cannot make it or are going to be late. Make sure you have a very good excuse and explain it to her in detail. Women are very sensitive so make sure she understands that your excuse has nothing to do with her. Your punctual behavior shows that you are reliable and that you respect your date's time and willingness to give you a first date. Men's dating etiquette must include putting a lady's comfort and needs ahead of your own.

3. Making eye contact and maintaining it throughout the date shows confidence and confidence is attractive. Eye contact is one of the basics of flirting and a sign that you find her interesting and attractive. Women love attention so show your first date that you are interested in what she has to say. Pay her the high compliment of not looking around at others especially other women. Be completely honest. Don't BS her or try to avoid answering tough questions. You are there to get to know each other. So, when asked a tough question, square up your shoulders, look her in the eye, and tell her the honest truth. Men's dating etiquette has to include a healthy dose of good old fashioned honesty.

4. Be ultra polite, treat your first date like it is a great honor to go out with her, because it is. Remember she could have said "NO" when you asked her out, but she didn't, she gave you a chance to impress her. Treat everyone with respect and the utmost courtesy and she will think of you as a gentleman. Do not be rude or argumentative. Good manners are very attractive to women, and a big part of good dating etiquette. Don't forget to say "please" and "thank you" and "excuse me" and work in a positive, sincere compliment or two into the conversation. If the food is good, compliment the wait staff. If you like the way your dates hair or dress or nail polish looks, compliment her on how nice she looks. Be sincere.

5. It is ok to tease in a flirty, non-sexual, non-threatening way, but do not brag on and on about yourself. God gave us two ears and one mouth so listen twice as much as you talk. Sure you can tell your first date where you work, but don't brag about how much money you make. If you earn more than she does, she may feel inferior or even jealous. If you are bragging big time and actually earn less than her, you will just look so very foolish with no real basis to brag. Focus on getting to know your date, making sure she has a comfortable, enjoyable time with you. If she enjoys the first date with you, chances are you will get a second date. Modesty and humility are an important part of focusing on good dating etiquette.

There, that was not too painful now was it men. Now, get out there and impress the ladies with good dating etiquette that sings gentleman through and through!

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