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Internet Dating Is Here To Stay

Regardless of what some people think and say, Internet dating no longer has the stigma it once had. Specialized dating sites are cropping up every day, and while other avenues may be closing, the internet remains one where those who want to can meet like-minded people who share the same goal. But if anyone is wondering what it’s all about, or wants a little advice before jumping in, or perhaps wants to know where they might be going wrong, this guide aims to cover it all…

Attitude. It’s important to have the right one. Don’t pre-judge. Regardless of what others say, go in with an open mind and you may be pleasantly surprised.

Better. When faced with an array of attractive, single men (or women), it’s easy to think there’s someone better than the one you’re currently emailing or arranging to meet. Concentrate on what you already have otherwise you won’t be able to give it its best chance of success. Remember "a babe or beau at hand is better than two or three in the bush" or something like that.

Dating in person establishes whether there is chemistry or spark. Chemistry. This is the Holy Grail of internet dating (of any sort of dating in fact). Unfortunately, it’s not possible to establish whether or not you have chemistry with someone until you meet them in person, so if you can, then do so.

But do not rush into meeting face-to-face. Let the relationship build up in a natural friendly way. Sometimes the whole key to how magically a couple seems to click together in person is all the time that they invested in communicating online, through chat and on the phone before dating face-to-face. By the time they see each other for the first time it seems as if they have known each other their entire lives.

Date. It’s all too easy to believe that the person with whom you’re having a great email exchange is the man or woman of your dreams, especially if he or she is a good writer! You won’t get to properly know someone until you meet with them, so again, if you can meet, do so as soon as possible.

Expectations. Try not to enter the world of internet dating with unrealistic expectations. Keep your feet firmly on the ground and aim, at least at first, for fun – consider anything more a bonus.

Fun. Remember dating should be fun, especially at the beginning (there’s plenty of time for the heavy, serious stuff later!).

Guarantees. Just because you both share a love of Beethoven and playing Scrabble, that’s no guarantee the two of you will find ever-lasting love (or even a physical attraction to each other). This is where internet dating is very similar to more conventional types of dating, unfortunately.

Honesty. While it’s OK to shave a couple of years off your age in your profile, don’t lie about factors such as smoking or children – or being married!

Imperfections. Don’t expect perfection even if you do find you have over 100 matches to choose from. And don’t strive to be perfect, just be yourself.

Jaded. Try not to become jaded. If you’ve been internet dating for some time and nothing has come of it, take a break and then try again in a few months’ time.

Know thyself. And if unsure, then ask friends. When compiling your profile, if you have no idea what sort of person you are, ask friends. And don’t be tempted to describe yourself as gregarious if you have trouble making eye contact with the grocery store assistant!

Location. When you do meet with someone, always choose a safe location and time. Never be tempted to make your first date a weekend away at some remote hideout, however smitten you are.

Misrepresentation. Be as honest as you can in your profile, while accentuating your good traits.

Naked. However good you think you may look in a bikini, or shirt unbuttoned to the waist, resist using such a photo in your profile. Likewise, beware of any Internet dater whose dating profile photo shows a great deal of flesh. This speaks, or rather screams, of desperation.

Other women (and men). While we all want to come across as unique, if you’re having trouble putting together your profile, take a look at how others have put together theirs for pointers.

Physical appearance. Don’t place too much emphasis on physical appearance – people can look very different in real life to how they look in a photo. While the camera might never lie, it can sometimes distort the truth quite a lot!

Quick. Don’t be too quick to jump to conclusions about someone on reading his or her Internet dating profile, especially if you like the look of them or they’ve sent you an interesting email. Some people struggle a little with self-promotion.

Romance. Just because there’s no spontaneity about internet dating (how many people say they fell in love at first sight with someone’s profile photo?), that doesn’t mean there can be no romance. Romance can crop up in the unlikeliest of places.

Sample. The good thing about internet dating is that you get to sample hundreds of men (and women) in a way that you wouldn’t in any other dating scenario. You get to see what someone looks like, what interests they have, and how good their spelling and punctuation are – without even having to make eye contact! "Aint them there Internet dating profiles GREAT, lol."

Time-wasters. Some people on internet dating websites are more interested in seeing how many people they can attract than actually meeting someone. If you encounter such people, move on.

Upbeat. Always try to adopt an upbeat attitude in your Internet dating profile and communications. Remember that dating is about fun.

Voice. If this is important to you, then arrange to speak on the phone before meeting up. It’s a great bonus if the guy or girl you’ve been communicating with turns out to be not only great company, but to sound great too! There are some Internet dating profile that feature sound or video, but interacting on the phone is always a treat especially if their voice is sexy and sweet.

Witty. Humor is attractive. Always try to be witty in your Internet dating profile and email communications – this can take you a lot further than a soft-focus photo that cost you an arm and a leg!

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True.com is #3. With over 10.5 million members this is a dating site to strongly consider for online dating success and maybe even ultimate dating safety, since true does a criminal background check on all potential members before they are allowed to join. They also screen out anyone married who shows up in USA, public records.

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